What's Left for YOU This Valentine's Day?

When it comes to meaningful self-care, we each need something different, but we all have this in common: nobody can pour from an empty cup.

After you sort out all the handcrafted cards and allergy-safe candy for the whole kindergarten class, the reservations for date night, and the treats to help you cat feel beloved...

What's left for YOU? 

• What would it be like to take some time for your self-care?

• Could you treat yourself with love, without any strings attached?

• What if you didn't have to earn your own approval?

You have so much to give to your relationships and to the world.
You just can't pour from an empty cup. 

Is it just me? I feel like Valentine's Day is supposed to be about love, but it has become just one more consumer burden foisted on us, where we have to perform - to demonstrate our love in a big rose-festooned way - or feel like we're disappointing someone. 

Meanwhile, there's no attention paid to our own feelings. 

What if we're actually letting OURSELVES down by busily lining the pockets of Hallmark, Godiva, and 1-800-FLOWERS, while ignoring what we really need? 

What is that, you ask? 

I don't think there's one ans…