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Why I’m Not Punishing My Tween: Mindful Parenting in Middle School

Why I’m Not Punishing My Tween: Mindful Parenting in Middle School

Our kids start growing bigger and the world expects more of them. They feel that pressure and may need us more than ever.

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Kate Lynch
Jun 23, 2024
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Hi Parents,

Here’s a post I wrote for Mutha Magazine 3 years ago. Ocean'’s starting High School in September, so I’ll share my follow-up with you some time this summer…

My Tween Is Struggling and I’m Worried 

My son is 10 and entering middle school. I see him struggling with himself. I see him having a harder time accepting feedback than he has since he was a toddler. I see him behaving in ways that make me uncomfortable.  

I know he needs more autonomy, but that need is coinciding with really bad choices. I worry, what will become of him if he continues fighting with friends, talking back to adults, and either ignoring or raging at his parents?  

He has had a few meltdowns that rival those of the toddler years, except that now he is bigger, louder, and throws things at my head. He has also punched his best friend a few times, who he has always been so patient with in the past. I wonder, are his hormones raging before any physical signs?  

I try to micro…

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